As a Wedding Stationer, I often get asked ‘When should I send my Wedding Invitations?’. Of course, there is no right or wrong answer, and timescales can depend on different factors, but below I have created a standard timeline to help with when to order and send your stationery.

Wedding Stationery Timeline


Organising your wedding stationery can be a little overwhelming, but firstly sit down with your partner and write down your guest list. You will also need to determine who are Day guests and who are Evening.  This will be used to calculate how many invitations you need and help set your budget.


Top Tip – Normally you will only send one invitation per household/couple.

12 Months before

First things first, Save the Dates are not for everyone! Check out my recent post, here to see if you need to.

If you have decided on Save the Dates, at this point you can start looking and thinking about designs, commonly these are only sent to your day guests and your wedding invitations will be similar in colour and design.  Your stationer may have pre-made collections, or will work with you on a bespoke design.

9-12 Months before

Time to send out those Save the Dates!

6 – 8 Months before

At this point, it is time to finalise your guest list and decide what information you need to include within your invitations, this may include menu choices or transport confirmation.  Allowing time for designing, print and delivery, work backwards from when you want to send them out.

5-6 Months before

Send out your Invitations.

Wedding Stationery Timeline

Top Tip – If you are posting your invitations, take them to the post office to check the weight and purchase the correct postage.

Wedding Stationery Timeline

2-3 Months before

Once your RSVP’s have been returned you can confirm numbers with your venue and finalise Table Plan.

6 – 8 Weeks before

Order your matching On the Day stationery, such as Order of Services, Place cards and Menus.

4-6 Weeks After

Order and send out Thank You cards.